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Half Of My Child Support

August 4, 2005 on 5:53 pm | In Mystery | | Send 2 Friend |

Half Of My Child SupportThis auction is going to take the cake. You are bidding on half of my COURT ORDERED child support for 12 months. That’s right 12 months, from September 1,2005 to September 1, 2006 you will recieve via Paypal, exactly half of my child support.
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  1. Hi everyone, just to set some folks the right way…no my kid is not being deprived childsupport…hes paying arrears of over $30,000.00 She is WELL taken care of and has a bigger bank account than most adults that have been saving their money..the other 50% goes straight to her bank account!!!! Gotta love the haters too!!!

    Comment by ALDAERIM1424 — August 4, 2005 #

  2. “Arrears”?

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 4, 2005 #

  3. Dictionary.com:
    ar·rears
    pl.n.

    1. An unpaid, overdue debt or an unfulfilled obligation.
    2. The state of being behind in fulfilling obligations: an account in arrears.

    [Middle English arrers, from arrere, behind, from Old French arere, from Vulgar Latin *ad retr, backward : Latin ad, to; see ad- + Latin retr, behind; see re- in Indo-European Roots.]

    Comment by ssr-grl — August 4, 2005 #

  4. So it’s archaic?

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 4, 2005 #

  5. Yes, he is behind…that is why his support is so high now, he didnt pay to start with so when he did start paying…they racked all of his arrears on him too!! Now to avoid a Felony Charge as Michigan now does, he pays his support!

    Comment by ALDAERIM1424 — August 4, 2005 #

  6. I only have one question Why? What are you getting out of this? If he is finally paying the money why give it away. No matter how much is in the bank you can never predict future needs? I am not trying to be hateful I just don’t get it. If you have too much give it to charity

    Comment by anonymous — August 4, 2005 #

  7. I don’t get this one either.Other than that no comment.

    Comment by Uzbekjoe — August 4, 2005 #

  8. This will look real good in court when he sees it and gets it dropped to the half that she does keep.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 4, 2005 #

  9. Its not your money. If I was your ex I’d sue your pants off.Hmmm…maybe someone will “drop a dime” on this seller. I’d be willing to bet this is illegal….and you can bet I will find out.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 4, 2005 #

  10. “Deadbeat” Dad or not,
    Hoping he finds out and takes serious legal action-Only deadbeat shes describing is herself.So sad shes taking money from a child for her own personal e-bay fun-
    Twisted!

    Comment by greengirlny — August 4, 2005 #

  11. I would not want any of that money from you. It will feel skanky like your auction. You have 2 children. Guess the father of the other child is laughing with you. Oh how I wish I knew a lawyer that could find your ex.

    Comment by Celeste — August 5, 2005 #

  12. This is just not right. Not right at all.

    Comment by poetsandmadmeg — August 5, 2005 #

  13. I bet the high bidder get’s her contact information and turns her sorry butt in..
    But, I think this is a scam. Another one of so many. You know like the my ex did this so I am selling it on ebay.We have seen so many of these!

    Comment by Gordy — August 5, 2005 #

  14. I love the Anonymous posts…to bad your a puss that you hide! I dont really care what people think about it! Like it or Hate it…Turn me in…its all legal…!!! Have a GREAT DAY!!

    Comment by ALDAERIM1424 — August 5, 2005 #

  15. I personally, no matter how much money I or my children had, would never just up and do something like this.
    I just do not understand how someone could flat out do an auction giving away money meant for their children.
    Things happen, and things come up. It’s a nice feeling to have that “rainy day fund”
    (Yes, you say you have plenty…Donald Trump has plenty)
    My husband and I had a very tight money situation about 3 years ago, and even then we always made sure to put our kids needs first. (Not saying you don’t, but, from your auction, not saying you do)
    I am sorry, but you posted an auction, and are posted on this site, so you have to expect the good and the bad…
    With that said…While, I am sure you have good intentions and want nothing but the best for your children. The auction to me, only makes you look like a woman scorned.

    Comment by Becky — August 5, 2005 #

  16. I didnt ask to be put on this site for one. Two, You are entitled to your opinion! What would be the difference if I would have offered half of my paycheck? It doesnt matter does it..because it all comes out of MY pocket…! I can understand how people are upset but they dont know me or the whole story…so, they voice their opinions..no problem here…if I was hiding something or felt I was doing something wrong…I wouldnt be on here..I would just ignore it all….With that said, Who knows, she may make out better this way anyway…He could die tomorrow and there would be no child support!

    Comment by ALDAERIM1424 — August 5, 2005 #

  17. Lady, you have some serious issues-
    Spend your extra $ on some therapy,
    Keep using excuses to validate-
    Your words dont justify what youre doing
    :(

    Comment by So Much $, SO Little Mind — August 5, 2005 #

  18. You didnt ask to be put on the site?…
    But when its on e-bay for all
    the world to see and judge,
    what in the *&^% does it matter?
    Im guessing this isnt the first time someone has questioned your motives either-

    Comment by greengirlny — August 5, 2005 #

  19. Um, how does the $$ come out of YOUR pocket, when your ex husband is the one working and PAYING the child support??? And get real, unless you are a gazillionairre, you, or actually your CHILD, can NEVER have too much money,ever!! :o) IF YOU WERE SO “WEALTHY” AND DIDN’T NEED THE CHILD SUPPORT, WHY SELL IT ON EBAY AND MAKE A PROFIT??? Duh!!You’re still trying to MAKE money here!!!

    Comment by STUCKINTHE80Z — August 5, 2005 #

  20. If my mother did this to me, when I was growing up, I would hate her forever. I just don’t understand.

    As a mother to a beautiful baby girl I can’t imagaine taking ANYTHING away from her, especially money meant to go towards her. So what she has “more money in her bank account than most adults”. That doesn’t give you the right to take that away from her.

    Oh, and just to let you know, what you are doing is illigal. I know first hand, and it could cost you your child. My friend’s (she is only 16) mother was doing this with her check (only it was from the state of New York for adopting her). She was spending it on rent and whatever else because she didn’t want to work. So, Nicole (my friend) wasn’t seeing any of this check and it wasn’t going towards any of her expenses. I called New York, let them know, and now I have custody of Nicole.

    Again, you are a bad mother. I feel very sorry for your child.

    Comment by Moonliteden — August 5, 2005 #

  21. Moonliteden,
    Thank God you got that poor child away from a horrible mother! You were/are an angel to do this! I too feel sorry for the child, and God only knows what else this poor kid goes thru if her “mother” is anything like her attitude and actions on here seem to be like! It is always the kids who suffer..always! I have 2 great kids of my own and would not even THINK of taking anything from them!! This child support is just what it is….for the CHILD!!!! I just didn’t know selling your child support check on ebay was “legal”?? Since when?? She claims it is all legal????

    Comment by STUCKINTHE80Z — August 5, 2005 #

  22. Gosh, Guess she wasn’t as smart as SHE thought she was….Auction is all gone!! Yippee!! :O)

    Comment by STUCKINTHE80Z — August 5, 2005 #

  23. I am not for or against this auction. Unfortunately I think what she is doing is not illegal. She can do what ever she wants to with that money once a judge orders that is the amount owed to her.
    Now wether or not her ex finds out about the auction and takes her to court for a modification of support is another question. It is just a matter of him finding out what is going on.
    Being a person that use to work in this field, I found it very distastful to “throw in” her friend that works for the courts that is willing to do the print outs for her. Once it is found out in that area that someone from that office is doing printouts for ebay auctions, that person is bound to be in trouble.A heck of a way to treat a friend.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 5, 2005 #

  24. Watch for the relist, I never said A FRIEND WOULD DO THE PRINTOUTS MORON…I get a printout EVERY MONTH FROM THE FOC>>>> lol…wow, you guys are a tough bunch..but thats ok…Crap happens, ebay sent me a nice little note, I gotta change ONE LITTLE WORD…See ya tomorrow!!!

    Comment by ALDAERIM1424 — August 5, 2005 #

  25. ok we will look for it and probably badger you some more.I myself am trying to keep my opinions to myself on this one. I don’t think it is right to give it away.If you don’t need as much as you get,then a modification is in order.

    Comment by Uzbekjoe — August 5, 2005 #

  26. She isn’t GIVING it away, she is SELLING it on Ebay, making a PROFIT, but yet claims to be so wealthy she and /or her kid doesn’t NEED the money??? If she didn’t need the money, she’d GIVE it away, not sell it..period!

    Comment by STUCKINTHE80Z — August 5, 2005 #

  27. Stay tuned……….

    Comment by poetsandmadmeg — August 5, 2005 #

  28. Just because something MAY not be illegal doesn’t make it moral or ethical! Child Support is pretty much self explanitory, it is to SUPPORT the CHILD, not to be auctioned off on ebay. It doesn’t matter if you are rich or poor, its purpose is the same and if you can support her without it then 100% should be going into her savings.

    It is very different than you auctioning off your paycheck, with your pay it is EARNED by you.

    Comment by angel_kisses1025 — August 5, 2005 #

  29. Angel, right again!

    Porn isn’t illegal but is it truly moral and or ethical?

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 5, 2005 #

  30. well after looking at her auctions, she can’t be all that well off seeing how she is selling ebay ID advertisements on a 1984 pick up truck and selling off her little girls clothes. She actually made $35 selling the ID advertisements. If she was so well off, why is she looking for ways to make money. Child’s mystery box for child, made by child for child. come one.
    One of these days, I’m going to think up something and make a million on ebay. Now i’m just a little ole silver powerseller, and still needing more money.

    Comment by chad_2020 — August 5, 2005 #

  31. dohhhhh. harsh, but so true

    Comment by chad_2020 — August 5, 2005 #

  32. Talk about ripping someone “a new one”
    Remind me to always stay on Anon’s good side :)

    Comment by Becky — August 5, 2005 #

  33. it is getting a lit brutal in here now.
    Scared so I will stay away lol :]

    Comment by Uzbekjoe — August 5, 2005 #

  34. LOL, Joe, you can’t stay away. Why? Because you had to return to post that you would be staying away. Thus, defeating the purpose of that comment.

    You’re a funny guy, LOL!

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 5, 2005 #

  35. She says this auction will be put back up. Curious to see if ebay is going to allow it. I think it’s awful.

    Comment by anebayseller — August 5, 2005 #

  36. You dont really know if it was really the child support, she could have just used that as a ploy to get people to look…with all the bizzzare auctions going on..not all are what they seem…No sense in call her names..that is just being childish and immature yourself…I doubt if the child is being neglected and I do think some of you are bashers on any auction that posts on this site because you have nothing better to do..and that would be the people that hide behind the name Anonymous!!! I think most of you including myself have issues that we could be spending our time working on…not bashing someone you dont even know…Get a hold on life people..Over 35 comments most are repeats…and this seems to be the most important thing in your life that you keep coming back to post again and again…..whew…sorry…but I think it was an auction and she made up a story to go with it…there are alot of them like this..and people were bidding..I think the first time I saw it there were 8 or 9 bids….so what, why does it matter what she does…it DOES NOT affect ANY ONE OF US…unless we bid….

    Comment by JoeShmoe — August 5, 2005 #

  37. by the way anan…you really make yourself look stupid writing all of that..That could have been your mama listing this…maybe that is why you are so bitter?????

    Comment by JoeShmoe — August 5, 2005 #

  38. oh yes..dont forget to point out that I put anan instead of anon…whooooopppppssssssss

    Comment by JoeShmoe — August 5, 2005 #

  39. AMEN , JoeShmoe !

    Comment by lulu — August 5, 2005 #

  40. I agree with JoeShmoe to an extent but I also have to say that is why these comment sections exist. The whole reason they are here is so we can say what is on our mind about the auction. If that is bashing, then so be it. I still say this woman is a moron who doesn’t know the first thing about parenting, and nothing she, or anyone else says will change my opinion on that. I never said the child was neglected. I don’t care if she has 100k in her bank account. That isn’t the point. This money is supposed to go towards her and not auctioned off to some random person on the internet. Again, I just don’t understand.

    And to whomever said something about this not being illegal, I think you’re wrong. That’s like saying the child support the State of New York was paying to my friend’s mother was the same way, yet the second I called them on it she was taken out of that house and put under my care. Child support is child support and if it is proven that it isn’t going to help the child, it is against the law.

    Comment by Moonliteden — August 6, 2005 #

  41. Well, child support is to help the custodial parent take care of the child. No where does it say that this is the Childs money. The custodial parent is the one who has to take care of the child whether or not the other one does so all of their money goes to care for the child. If this guy is or was 30 Thousand dollars in arrears then he must not have been supporting the child all along. So what when the child turns 18 then all this money should be given to them? NO, the custodial parent gets the money for what they spent during the time the deadbeat was not paying and taking care of the kid. Both parents have the responsibility to care for the child and when one doesnt do their part, the other has to cover both. So, in all REALITY this is not the childs money, it is hers…she would be the one who had to cover when he didnt pay his part! so, child support in this case would be paying her back for what she already covered. Depending on what he is ordered to pay, she may have gotten the child more money with the auction! Think about it, he may be only ordered to pay $5.00 a week in which case she would have been smart to auction it off leaving the bidder with a mere $2.50/ week and the bid was already over $120.00 ! I think it was a good auction and I think that by having it pulled as Im sure someone on this site had something to do with, they actually took away from the kid, not the mother with the good idea to get more money for her child. I think it is being taken the wrong way but I dont know the whole situation either. You can call her a moron nobody can change how you feel…I feel that she had an idea, a story, and made an auction out of it..There is no harm in trying to make money..that is what ebay is for….sell stuff and make money right?? I also dont think it is fair for someone to have the auction pulled, nobody knows the truth but her and like I said, she might have made more for her child off the auction! Why take that away from her?

    Comment by Joeschmoe — August 6, 2005 #

  42. Here ya go…Direct from the Friend of the Court handbook for the state of Michigan: 11. Is the Friend of the Court responsible for making sure that child support money is being spent on the child? The law does not give the Friend of the Court the right to question how child support payments are spent.

    So, really it looks like there is not much the father could do anyway..

    Comment by Joeschmoe — August 6, 2005 #

  43. No one had the auction pulled. She specifically said it was a wording issue and that she got a message from Ebay stating this. She said it would be back later today.

    Maybe Michigan laws are different than here in Florida otherwise I would not have gotten custody of the child off of something just like this.

    I am not just here to argue with you and I’m not trying to change your opinion JoeSchmoe, I am just stating mine, just want you to realize that. :)

    I also agree with you that the child should not get all this money for his/her self, especially if the mother wasn’t getting child support all along. In the auction though it says the winner will get half the child support as well as half the arrears. This means she would be giving away half the current child support as well, and I really don’t see what that’s helping, except benefiting the mother in some sort of way. With what she keeps writing, all the “HATERZ!!!!1!1!!” comments, she just seems childish and this auction makes her seem selfish in my eyes.

    Comment by Moonliteden — August 6, 2005 #

  44. its a damn scam. Somehow, someway, the winner will get like a $1.50 or something. Nobody is going to give away 1/2 of their paycheck. As it shows by her other auctions, she is collecting assistance or something like that.
    Look at it for what it all is. SCAM !!!!!!

    Comment by chad_2020 — August 6, 2005 #

  45. Well, I’m sure every man (or woman)…including you JoeSchmoe, would be perfectly fine if this was the child support YOU worked hard for and you assumed it was going to the child, or excuse me, the custodial parent for expenses in raising the child. You would not be extremely upset if you found out your hard earned money was being auctioned off on ebay?????? I’m sure you’d feel different about this “person” (can’t call her a lady!) if YOU were the ex-spouse sending the support!! And this IS America, everyone including Anonymous can say what they feel regardless! Just as you have your opinion also! I just know I would be irate if this were support I was sending, and I can’t see anyone would be ok with it!! Why don’t you look at it from that view before you defend her and her sickening actions!!! :O)

    Comment by Anonymous — August 6, 2005 #

  46. Ok, this is MESSED UP!! The above comment was posted by STUCKINTHE80Z, yet it is showing up as posted by Anonymous!!! It was NOT anonymous who posted that!

    Comment by Anonymous — August 6, 2005 #

  47. From his previous posts it seems to me that JoeSchmoe is just taking the side of who we are all against. However, that is his choice so I respect it.

    Comment by angel_kisses1025 — August 6, 2005 #

  48. I am not taking anyones side. Slow down and read the whole post. I stated that I dont know the situation as well that nobody on here does. I could care less what she spends the money on. You are quick to DEFEND your opinions, and I defend mine! Personally, if My ex-spouse spent her time not taking care of our child and living the life while I was responsible enough to make sure the child had what was needed and spent all my money to rasie him, I would take the money and go on vacation! but again…that is my choice and doesnt make it right or wrong. Maybe instead of Downing her for it, if everyone is so worried about the “poor kid” why not send her an email that states What wonderful people you are and that you are worried about the welfare of the child. You wouldnt do that because you REALLY dont care, you just want something to GRIPE about!

    Comment by JoeSchmoe — August 6, 2005 #

  49. I agree with JoeSchmoe…My dad didnt start paying his child support until I was 19. That money should go to the mother for whatever she wants to do with it. She had to cover EVERYTHING when he didnt pay so its payback time! My dad was only ordered to pay $11.00/week and he never paid a dime while my mom had to work 2 jobs just to feed us so I understand where she is coming from!Chad how do you know it is a scam…have you ran a few yourself?

    Comment by Chris_Marz — August 6, 2005 #

  50. According to what has been auctioned in the past, she is a VERY large woman which can sometimes make them have an ugly disposition. That explains her auction.

    Comment by Celeste — August 6, 2005 #

  51. Celeste…How do you know they are hers…she could have been selling them for someone else…Unless you bought them from her… Im sure you are not a model…What does being large have to do with anything? That comment just shows that ignorance exists in your household…I hope you dont have kids they learn this stuff at home! What a WONDERFUL Role Model You make! ha!

    Comment by Chris_Marz — August 6, 2005 #

  52. Wow, how does being of large stature CAUSE “ugly” disposition? Please explain this to me.

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 6, 2005 #

  53. So, Anonymous #2, how do you know that the post written by anonymous #1 was typed by STUCKINTHE80Z? I’m not saying you are wrong, I’m just wondering how you get to that conclusion. Also, why are you posting as anonymous? I’m not trying to come down on you, I just think someone should post proof before you make allegations.

    Comment by God's servant — August 6, 2005 #

  54. Gods servant… I am not sure here but I think that anon #2 was actually Stuckinthe80z. Maybe after she posted the first post she realized then corrected it. Not sure just my guess

    Comment by angel_kisses1025 — August 6, 2005 #

  55. interesting. So, you think anonymous #1 & #2 are her, and the 2nd time she was trying to explain that, but it again showed up as anonymous. I suppose that makes sense. Stupid technical errors. Can you confirm/deny that, 80’s gal?

    Comment by God's servant — August 6, 2005 #

  56. that was the first thing that caught my eye when I read that, but in order for that to have happened they would have had to deleted their name and put anonymous there, right? Or maybe used a public computer.

    Comment by angel_kisses1025 — August 6, 2005 #

  57. I suppose if this is the case, she may be having some troubles changing the name. Maybe when she sends it, due to a “glitch” it changes the name back to anonymous. Or, maybe she set it there, and forgets to change it. That is of course, if it’s her to begin with.

    Comment by God's servant — August 6, 2005 #

  58. I realized after i posted the 1st comment it showed up as “anonymous”. When I went back to correct it, it still showed up as anonymous. So I don’t know what’s going on! So I go to the message boards area, and it says I have 0 posts and can’t view…I’m like “huh?”. Then I realize, somehow my computer had me LOGGED OUT!!! I never log out on this site, and I post things every once in a while!! So now, I don’t know how it happened, I have to LOG IN each time I use this site!!! I ALWAYS post my user name…I do not and never have use “anonymous”. I can fully attest the last 2 anonymous were posted by me, STUCKINTHE 80Z. The 2nd post I was trying to tell everyone “Hey, it’s me, I’m not anonymous”!! LOL So, anyways, I got it figured out now!! :O) I have my “duh” moments from time to time, and this morning when this happened was one of them! No, I did not notice tha “Name” column was blank! Sorry for any confusion!! All comments I make, I own up to..no need to be Anonymous!!! :O)

    Comment by STUCKINTHE80Z — August 6, 2005 #

  59. P.S. Another blonde/duh moment, I actually thought that “anonymous” was someone’s user name!!!!!..which is why I defended “them” in saying their opinion. I didn’t even know you could post anything under anonymous!

    Comment by STUCKINTHE80Z — August 6, 2005 #

  60. Of all the comments here, you could call me anything you want BUT you will NEVER see me give half my child support away on eBay. Somewhere (hopefully) the money was there for the child in the past but that is no reason to pi$$ away the money you receive now. The mother desperately needs counseling.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 6, 2005 #

  61. That is what I figured was happening Stuck! Glad you have everything all worked out now!

    Comment by angel_kisses1025 — August 6, 2005 #

  62. STUCKINTHE80Z, I appreciate you posting what you did. Some people can’t own up to their own words, and I respect you even more now!!!

    Comment by God's servant — August 6, 2005 #

  63. Soooo, did she end up relisting yet,
    she promised to have it up again after changing
    some wording issues- but I have yet to see…?-
    I also note* she stopped writing when the comments began to get a little Hot in here-LOL

    Comment by greengirlny — August 6, 2005 #

  64. yep, I noticed that too.

    Comment by God's servant — August 6, 2005 #

  65. next she’ll be auctioning off her foodstamps and welfare check! I dont care how rich she acts, she has no money or why would she be selling it to begin with to make more money? 1 word: TRASH!

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  66. Maybe the law knocked on her door since the auction is no where to be found.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  67. hoping so…:)

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  68. you guys are morons yourself…like I said…go spend time with your kids…I dont know her…but she obviously has better things to do with her life than argue with all of you….she’s gone and you idiots are still talking trash about her…..DUH

    Comment by Goochie — August 7, 2005 #

  69. Just because I dont have the time to sit on the computer all day and post responses to your idiotic statements then you think I dissappeared? WHew…look…I just dont care what you guys think..I know the truth..and that is all that matters…And for the ones that are posting nicely…you got the point but…there is no sense in arguing about it…It doesnt affect any of you and yet you repeatedly post more and more…Is this all you do all day is visit each auction posted and gripe? I will repost when I am damn good and ready…I dont need anyones approval…like it or not…it will be back on…And for those who think im doing illegal…here is the number to FOC…call them…whooopie….269-969-6500 Good LUck !!
    Here is the number to CPS…269-966-1284 and to the local police 269-966-3363 happy calling!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 7, 2005 #

  70. Hey, Will you give us the # of your ex husband or boyfriend, whatever he is. the guy who is working and shelling over his hard earned money for you to sell? Please do post his # also!
    Thank You PS, you do have some nice size 22 clothes for sale though :O)

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  71. uh oh aldaerim got her knickers in a twist. did you notice she didn’t care what we said (good or bad) but she did come back to see either way. does it matter if people say good or bad? it beats going out and killing someone or shooting drugs. what ever happened to ’sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me?’ aldaerim, get you a$$ off the cactus and worry about your child instead.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  72. Anonymous…you are so full of bs..I said I dont care what you guys say…and I dont…It doesnt hurt me! especially you, you dont even stay on the subject…what does clothes have to do with anything and why does it matter what size? (Thank You PS, you do have some nice size 22 clothes for sale though) please post the auction number for all to see!! I cant seem to find where I have them for sale…..

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 7, 2005 #

  73. Ok,excuse me you DID have some size 22. I can talk about your clothing size because i CAN! Why are you avoiding the question of posting your ex’s phone #? Do you not want him to know where his kid’s money is going? Now simmer down and go get you a couple more big macs and some more doritos. And since you’re so good at giving out #’s, DONT FORGET TO POST your Ex’s phone #! since it’s so legal and all, you won’t care if he finds out,right! :) obviously you DO care what we have to say, since you keep putting your sandwich down to type a response on here!

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  74. I gave out public numbers…Im not going to give out his phone number stupid…But, go ahead and post yours and I will be glad to have him call you…!!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 7, 2005 #

  75. Why is it that nobody can stick to the facts? Have you all lost touch with reality? This is my first and last time on this site if this is all you people do is bicker…I hope the site goes under!

    Comment by By_The_Grace_Of_God — August 7, 2005 #

  76. Anon..I just called him and he said to go ahead and post his cell number…269-968-0241 He is expecting you…Just tell him that you are the moron about the auction…he’s expecting you!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 7, 2005 #

  77. Yeah right, that’s HIS cell# ha,what a joke. you don’t have the big,fat balls to list his #, cause you know he’d sue your big butt off! I’m sure with all the people who are on ebay this little auction of yours WILL get back to him.Now go hurry up now, before Mcd’s closes. You’re cranky when you get hungry..arggg.:)

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  78. Hey come on guys.It doesnt matter if she fat or skinny. She’s still a lousy mom either way to do this.Feel sorry for the poor kid! I happen to like women with a little meat on dem bones!

    Comment by fatchicklover — August 7, 2005 #

  79. Why is she a lousy mom…because he probably dont pay much for support she thought some idiot would bid thinking they were gonna get alot of money…and they did bid…she probably would have gotten more money from the auction then from child support…Makes her smart to me! People have auctions to make money…you dont really think that if she thought she wasnt gonna get more off the auction that she would even list it? I say relist, change what you gotta change…make dat money… and buy your kid somethin nice! Good Luck!

    Comment by hooosYoDaddy? — August 7, 2005 #

  80. WOW! Did I step into a pit of vipers or what? I was a bit confused as to how selling size 22 clothes makes you fat (the salesgirls at Fashion Bug are fit & trim but they have a section of plus size clothing?) And what does that have to do with auctioning off half of child support that it appears that she hasn’t been getting anyway due to the amount of arrearage that she says he owes her. I really wish I would have had time to get on the computer earlier as I wasn’t able to see the auction itself as it had already been pulled. This is very entertaining in a Jerry Springer sort of way.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  81. Anon… did you just do a complete turnaround…or is this anon WITH BRAINS?? lol…

    Comment by hooosYoDaddy? — August 7, 2005 #

  82. anyone can be anonymous…The majority of Anons, think sh’e a joke! And it is America, so we can talk about anything we like, even fat girls size 22 clothes! If you don’t like it, then get off this site!

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  83. I think this is someone else, the regular anonymous would never say anything nice…But, yes this one seems to have brains!!!And a very good point…I dont know what her size has to do with the auction anyway…I think anon just ran out of mean things to say…so he thought back to how his mama talked to him!! Poor guy..or girl whatever you may be…

    Comment by Goochie — August 7, 2005 #

  84. Sorry, I didn’t want to post my name as I did not want my auctions picked apart by Anonymous the Great and the rest of the rocket scientists. (I sold some size 18 jeans and some small size shirts at one time so they may find out that I’m a flat chested fat a$$ and turn me in to the food police for eating tacos and fries) …

    Comment by anonymous with brains — August 7, 2005 #

  85. hehehehehe! Glad you said it…we all know its true!! whooooohoooo!! Laughed so hard it brought tears to my eyes!!! sorry anon…but that anon w/brains is so right!!! lol..

    Comment by lmao — August 7, 2005 #

  86. ok now after all these crazy comments did anyone call the cell number posted to confirm it was legit? And also get another story so this can go to like 500 comments

    Comment by Uzbekjoe — August 7, 2005 #

  87. I don’t post as anonymous.No need to be scared let everyone know who you are.

    Comment by Uzbekjoe — August 7, 2005 #

  88. you all a bunch of bitche with nothing better to do then bitch on the internet………… oh wait im doing it too. damn.

    Comment by huh — August 7, 2005 #

  89. hey, at least the guy is trying to take care of the kids. Everyone check out my lonely sexy heart it is great. LOL

    Comment by the1wthemostcomments — August 7, 2005 #

  90. Ok, I am a large young woman and I am far from evil, or whatever. I have my head screwed on straight and I am very fun to be around. I am not sure who said what or what was said, but please realize that I know more skinny people with bitchy attitudes than I do large ones. Not saying skinny people are bitchy either. Bitchy people are bitchy. Not large or skinny ones. :D

    Comment by Moonliteden — August 7, 2005 #

  91. And as for the auction, does anyone know if it’s up again yet? She said it was only a small wording issue, so I am wondering if the “wording issue” was fixed and it’s back up or if that isn’t the true story.

    Comment by Moonliteden — August 7, 2005 #

  92. Has not relisted but has made her feedback private (can’t blame her).

    Comment by Britney — August 7, 2005 #

  93. I imagine she put her feedback private because of everyone picking her apart…did you see that she is Now a lousy mother because she sold some plus sized clothes?? I dont know what good it would do for her to relist anyway…you guys would pick the auction apart, and complain anyway! Im sure one of you had it pulled…ebay doesnt just scout em out..they dont have time there are to many!! Tatttletales!! lol…

    Comment by Goochie — August 7, 2005 #

  94. This is my first time at this site…but ouch…you guys are just plain cruel. This girl wasnt hurting her child..she was helping by getting more money, We all know that if she was getting say $100.00/week she would not auction of half if she wasnt making more off the auction. You guys act as if she was just giving this money away!! Duh..

    Comment by Mestish — August 7, 2005 #

  95. you obviously didnt read the auction-
    It was never her $ to do as please,
    it was her daughters-
    and Goochie,give me a break-
    youve defintly put your 2 cents in-
    move on…or perhaps we will pick you apart too-

    Comment by call it as we see it — August 7, 2005 #

  96. Tattletalers?..WTF..are you 3 years old goochie?

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  97. .. Yes Im 3 and have more sense than the two of you put together. child support isnt ordered to pay the child, the check dont come in the childs name, its to the parent..to use as he/she sees fit, if she has been using her money all this time to raise her kid, then damn straight its hers to spend! Bout time those deadbeats pay up, Call it as we see it and Anonymous (without a brain..lol) You guys must owe child support huh??

    Comment by Goochie — August 7, 2005 #

  98. Goochie is: ALDAERIM1424 (the seller)

    You really are a scam-artist!

    Comment by Anonymous — August 7, 2005 #

  99. 5604876096 there ya go!!!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 7, 2005 #

  100. How lame— not even the same
    (see I can rap and rhyme too)
    Ugh-:(
    Good luck on your auction!

    Comment by greengirlny — August 7, 2005 #

  101. Notice it no longer says “Child Support” check?? Hmmm…Wonder why? Maybe Ebay wouldn’t allow that wording? But I don’t see why, since it is so legal! Also very funny how her info. is now “private”. Guess she doesn’t want people seeing what she buys or sells! According to her, she didn’t care! She obviously does care what peole think, or she’d have kept everything out in the open !!! Oh well, to each his own! :O)

    Comment by Anonymous — August 8, 2005 #

  102. Hey at least she know admits she is a skanky fata$$!! Ha, Ha-Jokes’ on you porky!!

    Comment by anonymous — August 8, 2005 #

  103. ^^
    You got it. Don’t forget: …getting pregnant by some deadbeat who doesn’t even care about them, cigareete in one hand-baby in the other, cellulite ass squeezed out of her short-shorts, belly shirt with a huge gut hanging out, and in faint letters in the washed out, too small tank-top it reads “Sexy!!”

    Yeah, I can totally picture her.

    Comment by Anon — August 8, 2005 #

  104. lol! Too funny Anon. She’s probably like the Joe Dirt of females! If she has the beater pickup, I’d bet a million, (or half of my child support check..)she also lives in a trailer! Trailer park and all. Oh, the American Dream. Wait, I don’t get child suppoort.I’m actualy MARRIED to the father of my baby! He’s still here and didn’t run off. Of course he wasn’t drunk and I’m not a skanky fat chic either! Maybe that’s why I don’t have to rely on child support,welfare or handouts to survive! I WORK, something she knows nothing about!

    Comment by JoeDirtFan — August 8, 2005 #

  105. Back up and looks to be doing pretty well so far.Still don’t agree with the auction.But hey we need to all make some money somehow?

    Comment by Uzbekjoe — August 8, 2005 #

  106. You know, this whole situation makes me sad and angry. I live on a military installation and I see this happen so often to children and it makes me wonder why they had children to begin with. The other day a couple of girls from the neighborhood were out in my yard playing with my daughters. It was hot so I gave them all something to drink and a snack so that they could all cool down. One little girl about 7 comes up to me and asks me if I’m rich. And I said no honey, why? She said you have so many great toys to play with and you’re always so nice to us. I looked up the street to where they live and see a weed farm in the front yard, no toys, hand me down bikes, thrift store clothes on the kids, and a Cadillac STS sitting in the driveway. Now you tell me what’s wrong with that situation?

    If the mom of this auction, and I use the term “mom” loosely, has been able to reasonably support her child up to this point even without the child support from her ex, then maybe it’s time to give the child a little extra. It’s not spoiling a child. It’s loving your child and giving what you can. Even if she’s only getting say 20 a week in child support, then that 20 should go to getting her child the little extras. It’s nice that she puts money away for her child, but to auction off half of what she’s owed is depriving her child. Plain and simple. Child support is for the support of the childs needs and to help with things that would better the support of that child. So maybe she should be putting away that other half she seems to want to get rid of so bad for emergencies. What if that old truck breaks down? What if her child needs to go to the ER? Are the taxpayers supposed to sympathize and pay her bills when she’s on Ebay giving away money? And even though she’s selling it, there’s no gurantee that she would profit from this. She’s gambling with her child’s future. And the winner of this auction, are they getting the arears amount up front or as she gets it? Is the winner supposed to wait 10, 20, or 30 years to achieve the full amount?

    It just makes me sick to think of that woman being allowed to be a mother. Motherhood is the toughest job out there, but it is also the most rewarding when you see your child smile at you because you’re making them happy.

    Has this woman ever heard of a bank account, money market account, CD’s, Savings Bonds? Some of the interest yields are at an all time high and she would be doing her and her daughter a bigger favor if she learned to handle her money in a better fashion. She needs to look at the big picture and not just the immediate future.

    And if she is struggling to raise her child and afraid to admit it to everyone, then the last thing her child needs is a huge bank account right now. A college education can be ahchieved without a huge sum of money. It all comes down to prioritizing and I think maybe she needs a little lesson. And if she is a smoker, I have no sympathy for her money plights. With the cost of a pack of ciggarettes these days, that’s where her money is going then. Don’t even get me started on the health risks she’s imposing on her child. This auction is just sad. :-(

    Comment by military wife — August 8, 2005 #

  107. I didnt see the first auction, but atleast shes doing something to make money….so what if she is fat? I doubt if any of us are model material…I dont understand what that had to do with anything anyway but I see she must have struck some nerves in here..lol..which isnt hard to do!!!! oh..well…hope she does well…back to ebay I go!

    Comment by carried_away — August 8, 2005 #

  108. Joe, are you saying that being a hitman for the mob is okay, because well, “we all need to make some money somehow”? Sorry, I noticed a glaring flaw in that philosophy…

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 8, 2005 #

  109. Anonymous you seem to have some serious anger issues ! Let it go, you’ll feel a lot better , you seem to care a LITTLE too much about this…Just my opinion….

    Comment by lulu — August 8, 2005 #

  110. Just came to check and see the progress on this feedback thing. I have noticed that several people are trying to see things logically and trying to change the several anonymous persons views and opinons. The only thing that I can say is you are all wasting your breath (in a cyberspace sort of way) as you just can’t have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

    Comment by anonymous with brains — August 8, 2005 #

  111. I think anon is her baby’s daddy, thats why he posts the most..why he knows so much about her! Maybe you should get off the computer for a while and go pick up your kid and spend some time with it! Nobody seems to care about anything but what the money is for,….what about what the dad is for? Anonymous, go pick up your kid, you said she sold girls clothes..so congrats on your daughter…now go take care of her…

    Comment by anonymous with brains — August 8, 2005 #

  112. Wow, this new action is something else. She won’t post replys to her questions on her site, she won’t let anyone know who the people bidding are, and she won’t give out her feedback comments (a sure sign of a scam artist). For all we know she may be setting up new e-bay accounts and running up the bid that way. She is incredibly un-informative as to what these checks “really are.” In fact, I think this is highly misleading. The new auction makes it look like these checks that are comming in will show up monthly, where in all honesty, they probably won’t come in at all. I don’t think what she is doing is illegal, but I doubt the winner will get a dime out of this. If this guy hasn’t paid in years, why would he start now???? And even if he did, how can the winner know that he’s paying. She can tell him that the x-whatever never paid and pocket the winning bid. Also, I doubt that is the ex’s real cell number. If he was so easy to contact and get him to agree to post it on a public forum where people could call him up and yell at him for being the dead-beat he is, then why is it so hard for her to collect child support?

    Comment by Jimmy Jones — August 8, 2005 #

  113. Nicely put JJ!

    Comment by military wife — August 8, 2005 #

  114. I would love to hear the outcome in the end of this- Ive sensed a scam brewing from the get-go-

    Comment by greengirlny — August 8, 2005 #

  115. You put it quite correct military wife….I agree with you 100%!! It is sad,sad,sad!! It’s always the little kids that suffer in “those” kinds of environments. And for the cigarettes part, yes they are quite expensive. The “mom” is probably one of those people in front of you at the grocery store line who pays for her cart full of food with foodstamps, and then buys a carton or 2 of cigarettes with cash!! This happened this past Friday when I got grocery’s. Of course there were 3 little ragamuffin,dirty kids in tow also!! Just from what this person is doing in her auction, leads me to believe she is one of these kind of people. It’s also great military wife, that you are kind to those kids in your neighborhood who don’t have anything!You will be blessed 10 times over and those poor kids will ALWWAYS remember your kindness! :O)

    Comment by STUCKINTHE80Z — August 9, 2005 #

  116. If her aim was to to get everyone upset so that her relist auction would succeed then she is the winner. By making the auction private she can have a partner bid and get the ante high with no one wiser. Then a fool can come along and bid and, unfortunately, “win” the auction. Glad my fingers won’t go near the “place bid” button.
    You can still see her items she has won/sold by going to the “site map.”

    Please note: her auction states “You are bidding on a piece of paper that states : You will recieve half of my checks from this particualr court order for a full 12 months…The amount you recieve, will be a gift from me to you!! How nice! a gift!!! heck, I will even ship it to ya for free…whoohooo….now were talkin!!Free gifts, and free shipping…how can ya go wrong??”

    If you want a piece of paper with words - give me $10! Nowhere does it say money, it just says a piece of paper.

    I think she was a tad bit angry when the new auction was placed. If not, she needs to head to the $ store and buy a dictionary.

    Comment by Britney — August 9, 2005 #

  117. me and 8 other eaby users are going to place bids and then not pay***************************make sure you watch the auction and see who the winner is and then look for the negative feedback she leaves one of us “winners”*****te he he!

    Comment by ShEsAsKaNk — August 9, 2005 #

  118. Angry?-Just a tad…
    Her relisting is pathetic,
    (her wording,her spelling,etc)
    her little rant/rhyme at the beginning is so funny,I think she intended to be witty-
    but it just went to show:
    we called it as we saw it!
    Hopefully the winner will let BB
    know how it ends up-
    Or if shes so proud,maybe she will-
    LOL

    Comment by call it as we see it — August 9, 2005 #

  119. If I get your bids by midnight I will only charge you $5 for a piece of paper.

    Comment by Britney — August 9, 2005 #

  120. What is the link for the new, improved, lame ass mother posting this auction???

    Comment by Anonymous — August 9, 2005 #

  121. Anonymous - if you wanted to know, you will find it like we did. Whether we agree/disagree on the auction, your words were very caustic.

    Comment by Britney — August 9, 2005 #

  122. Britney, re-read your previous post, you say nowhere does it say money…put you pasted the part that says:”The amount you recieve, will be a gift from me to you”…just pointing that out!

    Comment by carried_away — August 9, 2005 #

  123. She’s still reading and she’s commenting on the fact that people here are still bashing her.

    Of course, it wouldn’t ever occur to her that since this site is dedicated to showing unique and creative auction ideas, and for the most part, comments are favorable towards other auction ideas or range from “that’s stupid” to “that’s funny”, that MAYBE, just MAYBE the fact that so many people are so angered and upset by her auction means that what she’s doing is in poor taste to say the least, and completely wrong by my opinion.
    Sure she doesn’t have to listen to what anybody else thinks and she’ll probably get away with this in the end, but honey, take a hint — it ain’t the right thing to do. It’s wrong in so many different ways. I pretty much make my own way in life and don’t bother myself with others opinions but when this many people who generally like a good laugh can agree that something is really f’ed up and it makes them mad, I would take a second look and really think about what I was doing. Apparently she doesn’t have that capacity. Too bad for her…and her kid.

    Comment by Anon — August 9, 2005 #

  124. I have bought items from this seller in the past and my items did not smell of smoke…not that that has anything to do with the auction but replying to the many posts that have to do with smoking….I went and looked at the auction for the items I bought and she had put “these items may have came from a smoking environment” I think she sells items that are from other people…I dunno….but…I know, I bought some clothes and they didnt STINK!! lol…just thought I would put in my 2 cents…But Im a fat chick so it probably dont matter anyway!! (no, I didnt buy the size 22 clothes…lol)

    Comment by Johnny9501 — August 9, 2005 #

  125. Ok, lets think logically for a minute. At this point..the bid is $152.50 which is about $12.00/ month that the bidder would be spending, if her child support is $20.00 a month, they would get half which is $10.00…not much but profit..and she is not giving them the whole arrear amount…just what she gets for the next 12 months….so, she is profiting on this one already… I think she may know what she’s doin…I dunno…just sounds like she may have found a way to get more from the auction! Has anyone thought of it that way? What do ya think? She doesnt tell what the amount of the checks are …and people are still bidding so is it her that is weird…or the people bidding??? Ok, go ahead….I have broad shoulders!! lol….

    Comment by Jack_in_the_box — August 9, 2005 #

  126. Again we all should hope she does make some money. She has to somehow as she obviously won’t get a JOB! She wants to make money the easy way, without having to work for it. She probably done lives off welfare and we can tell she is not a rich chic from her ugly ol rattletrap of a truck. Some people just want enough money for beer and cigarettes and can care less about the kids. This is the way she makes herself seem at least.She is worried about her own financial gain, and could care less if her kid has a decent pair of shoes i’m sure.As long as she has her necessities (ie. cigs,beer, and her sexy big clothes!)She’ll be laughing all the way to the welfare office after this auction!I sure hope the winner of her auction is a legitimate bidder, and not someone “messing” wiht her…………

    Comment by JoeDirtFan — August 9, 2005 #

  127. JoeDirtFan….for someone that is “trying” to bash this woman…you could use some spelling lessons yourself.., Nobody seems to comment back to the posts that actually make sense..it all goes back to Cigs,beer, and size…lol…I saw the truck…but I saw the house too..and it didnt look like a trailer to me ..I could be wrong…but that doesnt change the fact that maybe she is worried about her kid….since she obviously would not list the auction if she wasnt getting something off it. You say she is worried about her financial gain, how do you know this money isnt being spent on the child? You dont, neither do I, so why make such assumptions? As for the rest…My mother lives in a trailer, in a trailer park…She is not a drunk, she don’t smoke, and she took care of 3 kids by herself after my father died…She also is a heavy woman, but she is kind. Anonymous, you are bitter for no reason, to say the things you say about big people are pure hate and the “friends” you have on this site that still associate with you after these posts are just as bad as you! I guess thats the replies I get for asking someone to think logically….its impossible to do with you people. Someone said it best when they said “having a battle of wits with someone who is unarmed” I think that should describe… MOST of you! What you are saying about this woman, for the most part, had nothing to do with the auction.

    Comment by Jack_in_the_box — August 9, 2005 #

  128. Hey jack in the box, if you don’t like our comments or our spellin, then get off this site! No one is holding a gun to your head to be here. You must be her neighbor in the trailer park since you defend the skank…and don’t try and act like the “grammar police”. There is only one Grammar Police here on BB and it AINT you.Go pop back in your trailer,er, I mean box!

    Comment by JoeDirtFan — August 9, 2005 #

  129. Stop….look…you are yelling into cyberspace for someone to come back…! Get a grip people, I just pointed out something here, just as you all did…but because I didnt bash the same person that you did…Now I live in a trailer park…WOW! That’s ok…I dont mind. See, I can deal with a Good argument…but this, this is something else…this is a group of “dont like who we dont like or you won’t fit in” thats ok, I dare to be different…never said I agreed, I asked if anyone thought about it that way..and couldnt get 1 of 2 people to even answer..just more muble jumble about trailers! Do you all live in the same trailer park?? You do seem to know alot about trailers…hmmmm….

    Comment by Jack_in_the_box — August 9, 2005 #

  130. Um, no I live in a HOUSE that I actually WORK for. Like it or not, there is a stigma attached to people who act like her, and that is Trailer Park Trash. I am NOT the only one who thinks this either! I don’t expect free handouts or try and scam money from ebayers and i definitely don’t and never will TAKE MONEY FROM MY CHILD. You must not have kids of your own, or you’d see how wrong this is. You are the one on here blabbing about how wrong everyone who disagress with this is, and how a horrible bunch of peoplewe are ,etc. If you don’t like it, why keep commenting and going to this site? And I’ll answer your question. NO!I guess yu don’t agree like the majority does, that if oyu want something work for it, don’t expect the easy road! But you keep commenting about all us “bad” people on here. Must not be to bad, as you keep coming back and must like the site along with the controversary!The other great BB memebrs will have to deal with you now until tomorrow. I have to go to work and support my family now. I don’t depend on handouts or scamming people on ebay to feed my kids and pay the mortgage! Good ol sweat and tears. I’m sure someone else on here will rile you up soon!

    Comment by JoeDirtFan — August 9, 2005 #

  131. Go ahead, blow it all out of proportion…I was simply pointing out that you were calling her all kinds of names… yet you show you have your own problems…so now everyone should dog you because you have spelling issues, perhaps you dont read your posts befor submitting them, whatever the issue, please be assured that I was simply saying this: “People who live in glass houses, should not throw stones” you got mad because I said you cant spell, yet you tore this lady up like you actually knew her (maybe you do), unless I missed the post on here that said she didnt have a job…you again are assuming! There is a stigma attatched to people like you too, it’s called illiterate!!!!

    Comment by Jack_in_the_box — August 9, 2005 #

  132. Polar Bear people are going to make money any way they can.legal or illegal.I can’t see making a big deal out of this.I stay on the legal side of making money.
    All this auction is a waste of time and is wrong.
    The seller has received allot of publicity out of this therefore she is doing pretty well.
    If I was not here to create friction once in a while then I would not being doing my job.
    Nothing else I can say.

    Comment by Uzbekjoe Not always making sense lol — August 9, 2005 #

  133. Stay tuned folks. I hava little trick up my sleeve for tomorrow.

    Comment by Anon — August 9, 2005 #

  134. Maybe this is a good time to pull the plug on this discussion. It’s really going nowhere and people seem to be spending useless energy squabbling over silly details. Howzabout a truce? :)

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 9, 2005 #

  135. a truce would be nice,:)
    but the “squabbling” will probally not end until this auction is over with-

    Comment by call it as we see it — August 9, 2005 #

  136. Well, I don’t mean anyone any harm. I enjoy discourse when it’s going somewhere….. but the “back and forth” on this topic is dizzying. LOL….

    Comment by Polar Bear Again — August 9, 2005 #

  137. I admit the discussion is dead, but still stay tuned. I’ll take it up a notch tomorrow.

    Comment by Anon — August 9, 2005 #

  138. I think maybe some of us got way off topic here. This is not about whether she has a job or not, or is fat, or lives in a trailer. This is about her gambling with her childs support money. I personally don’t give a damn about this woman in any way, shape, or form. It’s her child that I’m concerned about. We can all sit here and speculate how much she’s getting in support and whether this is a scam or not, but when it comes down to it, she’s taking from her child in attempts to better her financial status and she’s taking a risk in the process. For one, the support is for her to better her child’s living situation. Not for her to gamble with. It’s no better than taking it to a casino and laying it all down on black 7 and praying your number hits. How is that bettering her child’s situation? Number two, if the courts get wind of this, they may not be so quick to grant her child support in the future. And it’s something that I hope the father of this child takes up with his lawyer. It may not be illegal, but it is immoral. And the courts are learning that a father can be just as good a parent as the mother nowadays and granting the fathers more rights. Including shared child support. And in ref. to an above stated quote from the friend of the court handbook, here’s another paragraph that pertains to this situation;
    The duty of the friend of the court includes:

    “making recommendations to the court for the “betterment of the conditions of dependent children” and to ascertain the moral and general conditions surrounding the dependent minor child”

    Although it may not be illegal to sell your support check, it is immoral and the courts do not approve of it. Looks like she wants to find that out the hard way. Or maybe she just doesn’t want this child to begin with.

    Comment by military wife — August 9, 2005 #

  139. waiting for it to be “taken up a notch”-
    wishing only the “best” for this seller
    (snicker,snicker)

    Comment by un-amused @ this point — August 9, 2005 #

  140. Anonymous X, The seller posted the new auction number as:5604876096 in one of the earlier posts.

    BTW how many anonymous posters are there? Since we all have handles, we are ALL “really” anonymous. Can’t you use a different name just so we can keep all the anonymous posters straight?

    Comment by God's servant — August 9, 2005 #

  141. I will be Anon1234

    Comment by Anonymous — August 9, 2005 #

  142. Thank you God’s servant

    Comment by Anon1234 — August 9, 2005 #

  143. She is auctioning a piece of paper, no money, read beetween the lines.

    Comment by Anon5678 — August 9, 2005 #

  144. Hey Anon1234, I’m wondering if you kicking it up a notch means the same thing me and a few of my buds are gonna do. I have a feeling, just a feeling,we will be placing bids on some money auction,really high bids now, and intentionally not paying if we win. No that would be dirty and mean wouldn’t it? Oh wait, the Lousy Mom’s auction is dirty and mean too? Can’t wait to see the outcome of this auction!

    Comment by Anonymous 2 — August 9, 2005 #

  145. I will bid 99,999.99 just for a piece of paper.
    Oh I hope I win!!!

    Comment by Anon1234 — August 10, 2005 #

  146. Anon1234 isn’t taking it up a notch - it is I, just plain old Anon. Well, he might too, but I’m not planning any excessive bidding anyway.

    I am also the same Anon (Anonymous at the time) that started ripping into her about her big ol’ “sexy” clothes and smoking habits.

    Tomorrow around 11:15 PDT if anyone still cares.

    Comment by Anon — August 10, 2005 #

  147. how come some of you are posting a day ahead of all of us? It’s still Aug 8th isn’t it?

    Comment by pat3011 — August 10, 2005 #

  148. Its the 9th here…dont know where you are!!!

    Comment by Jack_in_the_box — August 10, 2005 #

  149. my dad is a deadbeat too. but if i ever got his child support money i wouldn’t give it away on ebay either

    Comment by letoutpuissant — August 10, 2005 #

  150. Hi, Just wanted to answer a few questions that I have recieved:

    My feedback is private because there are some idiots on this “bizarre” website that are so into my auction, they have lost touch with reality and have went to buggin my bidders, so I thought, to save everyone the hassle of dealing with them…we would just prevent the issue….but beware, the people on that “bizarre” site…are so rude I wouldnt want them to EVER EVER EVER feature one of my auctions again…geeeshh….enough about them..lol…

    Im not posting Questions and answers because there are simply toooooo many of them and they are mostly the same…What other reason would I have, I have answered everyone that has asked a question!

    This is listed in Bizarre and weird stuff categories…because thats what it is ….I cannot put it under “Music” or “Art”…its just something fun…and thats what I am having …fun…When did that become a crime? Even so… I assure you that behind my ID is a 59 with a Blue Star….100% positive feedback….but I will not have people bugging my bidders!!! With that said…..I will answer all questions…just ask…!!!!!!! Keep watchin and biddin….

    Comment by ALDAERIM1424 — August 10, 2005 #

  151. OMG!…Were all familar with your ramblings at this point, no need to re-confirm your crazzzy!
    The world,nor Bizzare Bids isnt out to get you-
    We just saw something we all felt was wrong and called you on it— if were all sooooo rude here-put a cork in it, and quit writing in…:)

    Comment by call it as we see it — August 10, 2005 #

  152. Think about it lady — If this many people think you’re doing something wrong, maybe you’re doing something wrong. It ain’t rocket science.

    Comment by Anon — August 10, 2005 #

  153. Anon1234, you’re welcome.
    And thank you Anon, Anon1234, and Anonymous 2 for changing your names so we don’t get mixed up. That makes this thread so much less confusing.

    Comment by God's servant — August 10, 2005 #

  154. What’s with the head lice logo on her auction?

    Comment by Anon — August 10, 2005 #

  155. LOL, Thats exactally what that is—-

    Comment by call it as we see it — August 10, 2005 #

  156. Wow Anon,
    That’s too funny. I wonder if there’s anyway to make people who stumble along this to know what you are talking about. Do you think you can leave a note to pull up BB to find out what inspired this? Maybe even the link to come to this thread? You would have to do it as a question reply or put it in your about me page and refer readers to it, as E-bay doesn’t allow links in the auction.

    Comment by Jimmy Jones — August 10, 2005 #

  157. Ok, from the picture of her “bucket o rust” ratty truck is a rickety, old,ugly house behind it, so I guess she DOESN’T live in a trailer as we all suspected! But a nice trailer I would be much happier to live in than the old ugly “leased” as she put it, house! She’s still trash as you can see from her truck,rented house, and her tasteless auction! I feel sorry for her 2 girls she says she hauls around to sports,swimming,etc. This is just how society is. You know those 2 poor kids get made fun of because of the truck and how it looks. Like it or not, we live in a material world, and kids especially get made fun of because their parents won’t get off their lazy a$$ and work, to give their kids something nice! I have a boy in grade school, and they make fun of each other if you have the wrong brand of shoes. It’s brutal!My son would KILL me if he had to be hauled around in a rust bucket like that! I wouldn’t humiliate him like that! But then again, I and my husband BOTH WORK so we can have nice things, and so our son can most importantly!And the head lice is just gross! From the looks of her house and car, I’m sure there are cockroaches the size of cats also! Ewwwww!She is just nasty and so is her auction! I feel for what her 2 kids must go through at schol and at home! Poor things!

    Comment by Anonymous 2 — August 10, 2005 #

  158. Somebody obviously posted using her name…its in all caps and none of her other ones are…OBVIOUS!! lol…oh well…I dont know why you people get SOOO involved….it isnt going to change anything and you actually spent money on an auction to prove a point?? Just seems crazy to me! I dont wish anyone bad luck with their auctions as…I had enough with mine…lol..have fun kids!

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 10, 2005 #

  159. Her very first post was all caps

    Comment by Anon — August 10, 2005 #

  160. LOL! That’s the funniest thing I’ve heard in a while! That this “woman”-(can’t say Lady) has CLASS! Are you blind? Look at the pics. of her rented,old,rundown white house, and her bucket o’ rust truck! Along with the fact she’s STILL auctioning off her kids child support! The word CLASS is nowhere NEAR this lady!I’ve got tears in my eyes from laughing so hard! Class? That Person? The word Class belongs nowhere near her! The people with CLASS don’t auction off their child support money or drive an old beater truck, or live in a run down,decrepit old roach infested hole of a rental(or LEASE)house as she called it!And to add one for the original Anon, they sure don’t wear nasty shorts with their big ol butt sticking out! Your definition of class is different than most people’s!

    Comment by Anonymous 2 — August 11, 2005 #

  161. she isn’t auctioning off any money. she is auctioning off a piece of paper.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 11, 2005 #

  162. from his web site,

    Hey…were up to 65 watchers!! I also got an email from someone that said they saw an auction that was kinda like mine…but not quite as good…lol…!!! Glad to see those idiots from the “Bizarre” site were smart enough to think up an auction idea…Took them along time though…I bet they all had to work together to come up with it!! Oh well congrats are in order…everyone find their auction and check it out…help them make it to pulse cuz lord knows they arent smart enough to find it on their own…I also recieved a nice email from another lady…She informed me that these same people have tried to bash some other auctions…and this is what we came up with:
    1) If you go to the site…(anyone who needs the url…just ask,) and read their comments…you will see how they work together to try to make the auctions get pulled. They do this because due to their ignorance, they cannot seem to excel on ebay!!(our opinions of course) They havent quite figured out how to tell people to find them…so…um…Just ask!! lol…
    2) You will see that they have tried to contact my bidders and scare people away from our auctions! Rumor has it that the site owner himself has been banned from ebay!! (Rumors fly) This alone leads me to question their credibility!!
    3) They have posted over 160 comments on my auction alone…..and you can only post once every 30 seconds….according to our math…THEY HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO than sit on the computer all day! And have the nerve to talk about someone else…..
    4) These are the same people who bashed Forhead Goldie….The sweetheart that Got her Head tattooed for her son, Now you tell me….What is their purpose?
    Conclusion: They yearn for their auctions to make it this far but have not quite caught the right train,(I think they took the bus) and now that others are having fun and thinking of new and bizarre auctions, they feel left out….do you agree/disagree? I would post your answers but Im sure they will all be answering for their group as none of them are smart enough to do it by themselves!!!!
    Also, when you visit them…tell them I said hello, and wish them luck…they will sure need some!!
    Happy Bidding!!

    Comment by Giselle — August 11, 2005 #

  163. calm down! unruffle your panties…I never said she had class…said she did it with class….Now I am beginning to see what she means though, post a comment and get it jammed down your throat…gosh…sorry I joined the discussion without your permission almighty one!

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 11, 2005 #

  164. Hey quitcherbidden,
    I owe you an apology. My panties are now UNRUFFLED!loL Misinterpreted (sp.) your auction! Didn’t notice you had lol after saying she relisted it for us all “with class”. Sorry about the mix up!I feel much better now that my panties are unruffled! Whew, that does NOT feel so good at all! It just threw me for a loop when I saw the word “class” so close to that “persons” auction!I admit when I am wrong, and I was wrong about your comment! Please accept my apologies! :>)

    Comment by Anonymous 2 — August 11, 2005 #

  165. quitcherbiddin has the exact same writing style as
    ALDAERIM1424 does in her auction. “…lol…” after every sentence even when it doesn’t make sense. hmmm. I wonder…

    I also find it funny that in an early post, ALDAERIM1424 says “to[sic] bad your[sic] a puss that you hide!” since she has everything she possibly can hidden at her auction now.

    Comment by Anon — August 11, 2005 #

  166. Anonymous 2….not a problem!! Anon, get for real…you have taken this to far, you are so obsessed with her at this point that you think everyone who posts something is her! I think you may have a serious case of Paranoia!!!! I read earlier in the post that you may be this kids father….is that really the case? If so I think I can understand why your so into it, if not then what gives?

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 11, 2005 #

  167. Shes so disgruntle she has to post,
    and update her auction on how horrible the people and the BB site….thats so lame!
    She just cant let things go,nor the fact she was an unwelcomed auction here, due to her content(not ours),,,Her auction is a dime a dozen scam @ this point, and no one fricken cares!

    Comment by greengirlny — August 11, 2005 #

  168. No, I’m not the father.
    I know this because I’ve never been drunk in Michigan.
    I don’t have any kids and therefor no child support to anyone either.
    I just hate women who use child support as a tool to get revenge on men who used them as a sperm recepticle. He might be a deadbeat but if this is the way she uses the money, would you pay? I wouldn’t. I’d try to get full custody.

    Comment by Anon — August 11, 2005 #

  169. Anon, I understand that but you attacked me because of my “writing style” and say I’m her, from what you have had to say about her, I take that as an insult and wonder why you would jump on saying I write like her and she is using fake names! Im not perfect but I dont appreciate getting jumped on for posting my opinion either! Just thought maybe you had some legal ties to her since you were so upset!!

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 11, 2005 #

  170. Giselle,
    Thanks for bring that to our attention. She obvioususly doesn’t know what she’s talking about.
    Here’s a rebutle to all your points, Trash:
    1)we don’t work together to get her auction pulled. Maybe some try, but not as a group effort. Some are getting together with their friends, but not other BBers. 2) You would actually write down a rumor? You have no proof, you don’t even know his ebay name. If you took a minute to click on the “won” hyerlink you can see that he has won items and IS on ebay. 3)You say we have the nerve to talk about you allday, well you talk about us all day! Or are you too un-educated to notice that. In fact, you’re whole “new” auction is based on your hatred towards us! 4) Not all of us bashed Forehead Goldie. Many of us are fans of hers. In fact after GPC purchased the buy it now, we made a 2nd thread here on the main page to congradulate her. That’s something we haven’t done with anyone else. Yes, some people didn’t like her, but alot of fold did. And when it comes to you, no one thinks what you are doing is right. Theres one person who is trying to get us to see your side, but for all we know, it’s probably you with a different handle. Don’t say we’re all bashing you when the majority of the “regulars” are staying away from this auction. Don’t lump everyone here into a group just because no body likes you.
    From here on out: get a job, go on a diet, get a lawyer to collect child support, shut down your auction, buy your kid something nice, become a productive part of society, and stop having kids out of wedlock!

    Comment by Jimmy Jones — August 11, 2005 #

  171. I wish she would explain the head lice picture though.
    It has me wondering if she has had experience with it and maybe she should save the money she is auctioning off to hire someone to come to her house and pick the nits out of her families hair

    Comment by Anon1234 — August 11, 2005 #

  172. I’m surprised her mascot is a lice bug, and not a big ol’ roach. From the looks of her rental house, it’s probably chock full of them! Which is worse? Eww. They’re both nasty and so is she! I’m sure she has plenty of both in her house.Maybe she can use her kids support money she sells on ebay to buy up some roach motels, so her kids can sleep at night without any bugs crawling on them!

    Comment by Anon1020 — August 11, 2005 #

  173. Its pretty shallow for you to be talkin about her kids dont you think? Look, Im not defending her auction AT ALL, but why would you even say such hurtfull things about the children? Am I the only one here that thinks those comments are way out of line? I dont care what is said about the auction because it is wrong…but what is worse are bringing the kids in and saying mean things about them!

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 11, 2005 #

  174. ooops my bad..must have read the post wrong .I thought you said her two kids were nasty, now I see you meant the lice and the roach….SOOOOOO Sorry..

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 11, 2005 #

  175. I feel bad for the kids, they’re the ones who suffer! I’m just stating the horrible living conditions they probably live in due to the fact their mom is a skank who would rather live off other people’s money than actually go get a job so her kids don’t have to live in nasty surroundings!Look at the pics. of her truck and her house. They say it all. I work for nice things for my kids and don’t live off other people!I would not haul my kids around in that unsafe looking,ugly rat trap truck, nor would I allow them to live in a dump like hers.Never!The whole controversary over this stupid b***h’s auction is over the concern and welfare for her kids. It’s not their fault. I’m just stating how wrong it is that the kids are in this situation and it is sad :

    Comment by Anon1020 — August 11, 2005 #

  176. I did a bit of research. I could care less about this auction till she got personal about it. If found the numbers she gave didn’t go to anyone that could do anything. I did find the true number to get ahold of the department in MI that handles child support is 866-540-0008. Sadly, they said that this auction makes her a bad mother, but is not against the law. So, unless one of you out there are better at complaining, then she can get away legally with this auction. I just don’t see why one would want to. Who would sell $15K for $200? Please lady, just get a lawyer to get the money back and then use it for your kids instead of doing this ridiculous auction. Of course, if what some of these people have said is true, you won’t get the money anyway, so stop waisting your time and money on this auction that is making an embarasement of you!

    Comment by Jimmy Jones — August 11, 2005 #

  177. She said in the first suction that her kid has enough money and she was doing this to get back at her ex by basically throwing his money away. She’s just a bitter fat hag.

    Comment by Anon — August 11, 2005 #

  178. Hello everyone, Look, I havent been coming to the site and posting as everyone thought. If I have something to say I will say it, no need to hide behind other names. I just really dont care what you guys think, I dont owe any of you an explanation, I have answered all the questions that have been sent to me through my Q and A and thats it. I still have a hard time believing that you guys beleive everything that someone puts in their auctions though, its not real life people, its the internet, I just answered one question from someone and I put it like this: Do you believe that someone found a baby alien and they have it kept in a jar and now they are going to sell it on ebay? If you do, your just plain nuts, 99% of the auctions in this category have made up stories to go with them, so what if they seem far fetched…its how someone created the auction and if its selling, then they did it right. I dont care if someone is selling their Mommas ashes from her cremation, you know thats not what is really in there, but people bid. Im not going to argue. I ended it, but only because its not worth what all of you were trying to do… I dont want to make enemies but at the same time, the only reason I relisted it was to prove a point, you are way to involved mentally with these auctions. With that said, I hope you can breath better now!!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 11, 2005 #

  179. anon, I appreciate the fact that you listed an auction to “expose the truth”, it wasnt necessary. I just cant believe that you people went to such great lengths to get where you are!! anyway..good luck with your campaign!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 11, 2005 #

  180. Well, Im glad the auction is over, whether it was true or not! It was very controversial (I need spell check) I agree that it was taken a bit to far but I think it was on both sides not just on the BB and Im sure others will agree on that (maybe) I guess you have a point that most of these auctions are not what they seem, hell, you can buy an empty m & m wrapper for over a thousand right now, but still, Im glad it got ended or you ended it, what ever!

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 11, 2005 #

  181. I got a letter from ebay that said I needed to remove my smart remarks from my auction or it would be ended..obviously I couldnt remove them because you cant edit after there are bids, so I figured If I end it I would still have to pay the fees, if they do it I get my fees back..lol..so, I got my fees back!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 11, 2005 #

  182. Section 5.1 of the eBay User Agreement states, “Your listings may only include text descriptions, graphics, pictures and other content relevant to the sale of that item.” Unnessecary, gratuitous comments are not permitted.

    There it is, direct from ebay!!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 11, 2005 #

  183. Yeesh. Still unapologetic to the end. Can’t take responsibility for being out of line. Now she implies that it’s not real. What can you do?

    Maybe someday she’ll reflect on this and think “Maybe that was in poor taste.” or
    “Maybe all those people had a point” or
    “Maybe even pretending that I’m selling child support money is a bad idea.” or
    “Maybe I should only eat two pints of Ben and Jerry’s today.”
    Oh Well…lol…lol…lol…lol…
    Now I need to get mine shut down. Start complaining people!!!

    Comment by Anon — August 11, 2005 #

  184. Wow..how can you say bbers need to get a life when you’re the one making fake auctions?

    Comment by Shelley — August 11, 2005 #

  185. No, none of the above apply. Maybe I chose to run this the wrong way, but if I had replied to some of the comments that were made, nobody would have believed it anyway, everyone was out to critcize and so they did. I may relist, but I will choose what I say differently and make sure there are no misunderstandings up front..that part did affect me, but the rest I still think was way out there. People become to involved and still believe things that are obviously a story…That is the part I cannot apologize for, thats ignorance, and it is part of life…you have all shown this as well as myself, and it will always exist! Like it or not!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 11, 2005 #

  186. shelley, it wasnt a FAKE auction, I just simply stated that there was a story to it…big whoopie..

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 11, 2005 #

  187. So you really were auctioning off 1/2 of your kids child support?

    Comment by Shelley — August 11, 2005 #

  188. So in other words, it WAS a scam as alot of others thought? Regardless, that was way low of her to use her kid in her scheme to make money. Again,GET A JOB!Your “leased”(fancy name for RENTED) house is old and ugly, your truck, if you can call it that, is old and ugly, and you are probably ugly too! We all know from your actions you are a fata$$ skank and a nutcase for even thinking about seling your kids child support! Oh, but now it all was just a story,huh? Get real. You tried selling the kids support check and it didn’t work! I know of SEVERAL poeple, both members of BB and non members who complained to ebay about your stupid auction you cow!I’ve got to go finish my work now, something you know NOTHING about obviously! And I feel so sorry for your kids.Look where you let them “live” and look at what you drive them around in! Disgusting, like you!

    Comment by Anon1020 — August 11, 2005 #

  189. So, let me get this strait-
    2 auctions ended in less than a week-?
    No,No, Nothing was wrong here,:)
    and now you claim it was all a
    “story”, a fake-
    You are the fake-
    You slammed this site,
    like it was the bad guy,
    when it was you all along,Scammin’
    aldaerim- Karma has its way of
    rewarding people….like you! :)

    Comment by greengirlny — August 11, 2005 #

  190. blah blah…blah blah…blah blah.. anon1020 you know what, I happen to work 40+ hours a week to take care of my kids, plus, I go to school m-f…I have a very nice house, with a fenced in yard, 4 bedrooms if you must know, and its bought and paid for.. I dont care if it is not a million dollar home, Its a home in a very nice neighborhood. You can all claim to have The Perfect Life..with your picket fences, and all, but I know that is not the case. Every one of you has had your share of problems in life and have done what you think is best for your children correct? Tell me you have never done anything you didnt regret and you’ll be lying through your teeth. There is a purpose behind this auction, and I have my reasons for doing it, but regardless of if you agree/disagree with it, your decisions are no more right or wrong than mine. You can keep calling me names, or trying to degrade me, but I know what I have, and how I got it and that is what is important to me and my family not your opinions!

    Comment by aldaerim1424 — August 11, 2005 #

  191. Ok ok….atleast she made some sort of apology for her actions! Dont you ever quit? Aldaeim1424, whatever your reasons, Im glad that you made the right choice, and this was the right choice, in the end. Not all of us here are bad people, we just dont think your auction was appropriate, in other words, we think of bizarre in a different way then you do. Enough with me, but I do think you were offering some sort of apology and to me that takes some guts! Cant speak for the others, but that is my opinion!

    Comment by quitcherbiddin — August 11, 2005 #

  192. If its not important,snd were all so degrading,,,
    your auction is over-
    Quit writing in with more lies-
    + Plus, dont you just depise this site?,
    and its evil members?
    Give us a break!-
    Any extra money that floats your way would be well spent on some therapy!

    Comment by call it as we see it — August 11, 2005 #

  193. Still lying,huh? In one of your past auctions, the one where you were helping out a “frined” in need, you plainly state in your own words”Due to my LEASE she can only stay with me a few days” or whatever? Now you all of a sudden OWN your home? Keep your stories and lies straight, please!Quit trying to impress us. We all believe you OWN that old, ugly white house (the one in the pic. in the auction with the old truck.) Not! Your auction got pulled AGAIN, get over it! And if you work 40+ hours a week, why do you have to scam and sell clothes on ebay to survive? Pathetic!

    Comment by anonymous — August 11, 2005 #

  194. The auction has been removed from eBay so why are they still being talked about?

    Comment by detective fbi — August 12, 2005 #

  195. “they”?….its one woman,
    and she keeps writing in to tell more lies-
    FBI Detective: Youre about 210 posts too late,better investigate elsewhere!
    :)

    Comment by Anonymous — August 12, 2005 #

  196. I’m not late, but I do think we should give it up. We fought to get her to quite this auction and/or get it removed from e-bay. She/they did that. Then, she admited herself to be the fake we all knew she was. Further posts just make her become the attention whore she wants to be. So, yes, I have to agree wit